Preheat the oven to 450°F (230°C). Line a baking sheet with foil or parchment.
Pat the trimmed wings dry, then season with 1/4 tsp salt and 1 tsp pepper and drizzle with 1 tbsp olive oil; toss to coat evenly.
Arrange the wings in a single layer on the prepared baking sheet. Bake for 15–20 minutes until cooked through.
While the wings bake, make the chutney-based sauce: in a medium pot, heat 1 tbsp oil over medium-high heat and cook the shallots (or minced red onion) until soft and translucent.
Add the minced jalapeño, garlic and grated ginger and cook briefly until fragrant, about 30 seconds.
Stir in 1/4 tsp cumin, 1/4 tsp turmeric and the minced mango; cook while stirring to slightly soften the fruit.
Add 1 tbsp light brown sugar, 1 tbsp white vinegar, 1 tbsp water and 1/8 tsp salt; bring to a boil, then simmer on low about 4 minutes until thickened and most liquid has evaporated. Remove from heat and let cool slightly.
In a large bowl, combine 1/3 cup mango chutney, the minced jalapeño, juice of 1/2 lemon, 1 tbsp honey, 2 tbsp soy sauce, and 2 tbsp each minced cilantro and mint. Stir in the cooked mango mixture.
When the wings are cooked through, transfer them to the bowl with the chutney sauce and toss to coat evenly.
Return the coated wings to the same baking sheet in a single layer, pour any excess sauce over them, and bake for another 12 minutes until the sauce is sticky and edges are caramelized.
Remove from oven and sprinkle with extra minced cilantro and mint. Serve with mango slices, onion slices, and lime wedges if desired.